Attraction I don't understand it.

Attraction I don't understand it. 

It's not something you can prove with theories or evidence. It's a much more complex. Discovering what makes you attracted, can be along road which can lead to utter confusion. The circumstances and all the fragments involved are just too complex to analyze. But I would really like to get to the bottom of this.

Haven't you ever wondered what you see in that person that others don't? Why do you see it ? While others ignore it, or find it just plain ugly? Human's are far from complicated. There isn't a word to describe it. My best guess would be entangled. 

What are we entangled in? Emotions, dreams and fantasies. I blame hollywood for that. All of it. They made us believe that, true love is like a fairy-tale. Then shutting us down with reality.  There is no such thing as true love. 

I have a friend and for the sake of this scenario i shall call her 'Case X'. She is currently obsessed and infatuated with this boy. Who hurt her =(. Which i don't understand why? He isn't anything special. He isn't smart nor witty. Nor wouldn't do an interlectual thing to save his life. I know thats all interlectual and you can't and should not judge someone for being stupid. However his dress sense and hair style should be shot. His hair is ratty and messy. However she likes all these aspect and they make her want to date him more. Honestly i feel this boy should count himself lucky. but he has no clue someone loves him this much. Which is what makes him stupid. 

I guess that leads me on to taste. Everyone's tastes are just plan different some people honestly like dipshits. I don't know why. But we are all guilty of falling in love with a dipshit once in our lives. Some people however don't learn and keep repeating this mistake. 

Humans truly are stupid. 

Love and intelligence should not be used in the same sentence. (Even though i just have, to prove a point) NO ONE is too smart for love. You can be the smartest guy or girl on the planet yet still be nieve and ignorant when it comes to love. 

Like i know of many shallow girls whom only go after the pretty boys. These are the friends you know wont aprove of your boyfriend. Even though you utterly love him. Because of looks.  Looks. Do they really matter. Who decides what is ugly and what is hot? Are we saying God creates ugly people. When everyone was created in Gods image.

I tried once to understand my own attraction. When i was trying to help my friend understand hers. However i failed to comprehend why i liked the guy. Even though i tried so hard to analyze it. Or maybe i knew why i liked him but couldn't bring myself to admit it.

It all came down to the process you go threw which aches your brain. Its an endless battles with yourself. Knowing you can do better. Being angry at yourself for not wanting to. What's worse is knowing your ignorant for liking them. Especially since you know deep down they're not dating material. But you overwrite all intelligence and want to date them regardless. Which is the stupid part because at the time that honestly feels like the logical answer. 

The worst part is after knowing all that you need to know to convince yourself otherwise. Its like your too stupid and foolish and fall in love with them anyways. 

I avoid love these days. I figure its better to keep my intelligence. (Iv been there done that and it made me rather nieve. Im still trying to gain some brain cells back.) Because the both can't co exist. If you in love your stupid. As i said before no one is too smart for love.Once its got you. You can feel your brain cells turn to mush. But by then your powerless to take control of your emotions. Meaning you fall into the unknown.

I guess this is why many people choose one night stands over relationships.  They can seem logical as they give you the feeling of love, but you keep the brain cells. Because you invest no emotional attachment. 

Because love only makes you foolish when you actually care. 

It's like hooking up with a random stranger at a club have you ever noticed how easy that can flow. Compared to when it really matters. Yet, when you with the person you want to the most, its like a barrier gets put up. An unknown fear. A tension. And yet even though you want to you can't go no further. However when it comes to a complete stranger you can just walk up to them kiss them and make out. Because in all honesty they mean nothing to you.

I guess all things considered should we really live in the fear of love? Fear of the confusion and messed up emotions. Why would anyone want to be in love? Seems illogical.

But being human we repeat and make the same mistakes over and over.